Office of Marriage & Family Life

Participating in Mass is one of the best things we can do for our family. But, like so many things that are good for us, going to Mass as a family is not always easy and we do not always feel like doing it. Nevertheless, the Church tells us "the Sunday Eucharist is the foundation and confirmation of all Christian practice." (CCC 2181) 

Parents, we will never regret taking our children to Mass. It is will lead them, and us, to Jesus. As you take on this important duty, here are few things to remember:

• Your fellow parishioners are grateful that you bring your family to Mass. They know your children are the future of the Church and will be patient with the ordinary challenges children present at Mass.

• Be engaged yourself and model participating in the prayers and songs to your children. This makes it easier to be attentive.

• Sitting near the front or close to an aisle can sometimes help children see what is happening and make it easier for them to pay attention.

• Explaining what is happening at Mass can help children pay attention. Just remember to keep your voice low while in the Sanctuary.

• Sometimes taking a little walk can help. If your child is struggling to keep it together, feel free to take them to the vesitbule or outside for a little break. This provides them a chance to move around and regain their composure. It can also be helpful if your child was getting a little too noisy.

• Rewards can help. If your parish offers coffee and doughnuts after Mass, take your children there for a reward. This a great way to reward them and will introduce you to other families and other parishioners.

• We are glad you are here! Even when your children are having a bad day, your family is a gift to the Church.